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Summary: In some cases, mental health problems cause failure to launch in young adults. However, a combination of social and economic factors may contribute to failure to launch among young adults: it’s not only about mental health.

Key Points:

  • In recent years, circumstances such as the pandemic and economic uncertainty led to a short-term spike in mental health problems among young adults.
  • When difficult external circumstances and challenging internal issues accumulate, many young adults choose to stay at home rather than strike out on their own.
  • For young adults with serious mental health issues, it’s important to reframe failure to launch as unprepared to launch or preparing to launch, and to understand that their launch timeline may be different than young adults without menta health problems.
  • Offering young adults mental health treatment and practical, skills-based support can help facilitate the move toward sustainable independence.

Young Adults In 2026: Challenges, Opportunities, and Overcoming Adversity

A recent article in the New Yorker caught our attention:

The Kids Are Kind of All Right

The author cites recent statistics published by the U.S. Federal Reserve, the U.S. Census Bureau:

Trends in Adults Living at Home With Parents: Federal Reserve Data

  • 2019: 37% of adults under 30
  • 2022: 43% of adults under 30
  • 2025: 49% of adults under 30

Adults Living at Home in 2025: U.S. Census Bureau

  • 18-34:
    • Living with parents: 23.8 million
    • Living with other relatives: 9.3 million
    • Total: 33.1 million
  • 35-64:
    • Living with parents: 6.2 million
    • Living with other relatives: 16.9 million
    • Total: 23.1 million

When we read those figures, we wonder what’s going on with our young adults. What’s driving them home? Why are more and more young adults staying or returning home. Is it mental health problems? Is it the economy? Or something we’re not seeing?

What we conclude is that young adults today live in a completely different world than their parents – a world where circumstances make leaving home more difficult with every passing year. And here’s a spoiler alert: mental health is not the primary driver of young adults living at home. In fact, we want to remind parents of young adults with mental health issues something important:

Leaving home may not be what’s best for them.

We understand that may cause unforeseen challenges for parents of young adults, and families may need to reassess long-term plans to accommodate these changes. To learn what’s going on with young adults in general – and how and why things are different now than just a decade ago – it may help to take a step back and look at the past 5-6 years.

What Are Young Adults Facing? What Does Their World Look Like?

We don’t necessarily want to dwell on the second half of 2020, but in order to understand where young adults are now, it’s critical to understand where they were then, how events affected them, and how gaining perspective can help us help them as they move forward in their lives.

Let’s go back to 2020.

In Spring of that year, college seniors across the country looked forward to graduation and the next phase of their lives. Some planned to go to graduate school. Some had jobs lined up and were ready to start a new career. Others had a general plan to move to a new city, find a job, and begin their lives as fully functioning, gainfully employed adults.

Almost none of them planned to move back in with mom and dad and wait out the worst of a global, hundred-year pandemic.

Yet that’s exactly where many of the estimated 3,898,000 college graduates found themselves early that summer. They entered an externally imposed holding pattern, waiting to start their lives, but unable to do so for reasons beyond their control.

Now, six years later, many of them have moved on, but some are exactly where they were then. They face an uncertain economy, a confusing outlook on the future of employment – will AI take all the jobs? – and managing mental health issues that increased during the pandemic.

Young Adults: Employment Facts and Figures 2019-2025

Before the pandemic, employment statistics showed as many as 53% of college graduates were underemployed. Many college seniors knew they were entering a challenging job market and understood that it would likely take them a year or more to secure a job in their chosen career. They knew they’d have to work their way up, and possibly take non-career track jobs while they searched for their first break.

The past six years haven’t helped the situation much, at all.

Data from Statista show the real numbers about the employment status of recent college graduates during the summer after graduation:

  • 2019: 3.8% of recent college graduates were unemployed.
  • 2020: 13.3% of recent college graduates were unemployed.
  • 2021: 6.1% of recent college graduates were unemployed.
  • 2022: 4.2% of recent college graduates were unemployed.
  • 2023: 4.3% of recent college graduates were unemployed.
  • 2024: 5.3% of recent college graduates were unemployed.
  • 2025: 5.6% of recent college graduates were unemployed.

What all this means is that many recent college graduates returned to live at home, and many are stll there. This trend began well before the pandemic, as documented by the Pew Research Center in 2016. In fact, this generation of young adults have a name: the boomerang generation – because like a boomerang, they’re coming back to where they started.

But this new group of young adults and recent college grads have new challenges to face. The stress and uncertainty of the pandemic caused an increase in the prevalence of depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, suicide attempts, and alcohol/substance use. Rates of these issues increased for almost all demographic groups between during the pandemic, but the numbers were particularly high for this generation young adults – college graduates or not.

How the Pandemic Impacted Young Adult Mental Health

At the beginning of the pandemic, experts from virtually every healthcare related field predicted that the isolation associated with stay-at-home and social distancing regulations combined with the general uncertainty around everything COVID-related would have negative consequences on the mental health of U.S. citizens.

In August of 2020, roughly six months into the pandemic, the non-profit organization CHEGG conducted a survey of over a thousand high school and college age students to assess the impact of the pandemic on young adults.

Here’s what they found:

  • 58% of college students said they were moderately, very, or extremely worried about their personal mental health.
  • 53% of college students reported increased stress
  • 48% reported symptoms of anxiety
  • 33% reported symptoms of depression
  • 55% reported they’d offered support a friend with mental health problems
  • 49% said a friend with mental health problems had reached out to them for support
  • 23% reported they knew someone who’d engaged in suicidal ideation since the beginning of the pandemic
  • 5% reported they’d attempted suicide

That was then: young adults and college students faced stiff headwinds, and their mental health reflected the situation. Now let’s fast-forward to 2025-2026 and check on the current mental health status of young adults.

What’s Happening Now? Have Mental Health Problems Increased or Decreased Since 2020?

The evidence we cite above shows clearly that shelter-in-place orders, depression, anxiety, income instability, and unemployment all increased risk of developing mental health problems for young adults. And now, a full six years later, recent college graduates who live at home with their parents experience four of these five risk factors at the same time.

But are rates of mental health problems still elevated?

Here’s a brief look at the trends in anxiety and depression among adults from 2020-2023, published in this report from the Kaiser Family Foundation (KFF):

Anxiety and Depression, 2020-2023

  • April 2020: 35.9%
  • February 2021: 39.3%
  • February 2022: 31.5%
  • March 2023: 32.3%

Now let’s drill down on those figures from 2023, and look at the prevalence by age group:

Anxiety and Depression in 2023, By Adult Age Group

  • 18-24: 49.9%
  • 25-49: 38%
  • 50-64: 29.3%
  • 65+: 20.1%

Next, the most recent National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NSDUH 2025) shows the following:

  • Anxiety, Adults 18-25: 33.3%
  • Depression, Adults 18-25: 14.2%

Finally, let’s compare those numbers to the those from 2015, as reported in the 2020 NSDUH and the National Institutes of Health (NIH):

  • Anxiety, Adults 18-25: 11.2%
  • Depression, Adults 18-25: 10.3%

The data indicate that while the spike in mental health problems for young adults observed between 2020 and 2022 has abated, rates of anxiety and depression are significantly higher than their pre-2020 levels.

And when we look at the increase in rates adults under the age of 30 living at home, we’d be remiss if we didn’t recognize that mental health issues may be one contributing cause of the failure to launch syndrome, but it’s likely not the only cause: employment concerns and uncertainty about the economy are likely involved, as well.

Living With Parents as an Adult

Let’s be clear: young adults with serious mental health issues may need to live with their parents, if that’s an option, and may need to for some time. For them, launching may not be a goal right now. What they need is stability, and if parents are willing and able to offer that, the launch can come in its own time.

However, young adults who choose live at home, or are forced home for economic reasons, may be at risk of developing mental health problems for the first time, or at risk of escalation of any current mild or moderate mental health problems.

Why?

Proximity to family can increase levels of stress and anxiety – we don’t need statistics for that, since it’s a common human phenomenon – which makes an already difficult situation that much more challenging.

Here’s what they face, and why it can cause problems:

  1. When college students leave college for mental health reasons, or graduate (with or without mental health issues) and then move home, where a range of factors may lead to symptoms of depression and anxiety.
  2. Mild or moderate anxiety – in combination with isolation from peers, unemployment, and general economic instability – can lead to clinical depression and clinical anxiety, and increase risk of alcohol or substance use problems.
  3. Mental health disorders and substance use can impair the ability of an individual to seek and find employment and housing.

Six years ago, the pandemic interrupted life for many teens and young adults. Now, in 2026, the time spent at home may have created problems that prevented them leaving the nest and contributed to their failure to launch.

How Friends and Family Can Help

If you’re the parent of one of these recent college grads who are still – even now, several years after the end of the pandemic – living at home, you can help them. If they’ve developed a mental health condition, what you need to know is that treatment works. The best thing you can do for them – and for your peace of mind – is arrange an appointment with a mental health professional. A therapist or psychiatrist can assess and diagnose the presence of a mental health disorder or a substance use disorder. If your college-age child receives a diagnosis, they’ll also receive a recommendation for treatment.

Think of this as a positive step in the right direction.

The right treatment at the right time can help your young adult child, friend, or loved one restore and rebuild their self-esteem and self-efficacy. It can help them learn to manage the symptoms of a mental health disorder, if that’s what they need. The right treatment can help them get past this difficult set of circumstances, get their affairs in order, and get them on the road to living a fulfilling, independent, and productive life.

About Angus Whyte

Angus Whyte has an extensive background in neuroscience, behavioral health, adolescent development, and mindfulness, including lab work in behavioral neurobiology and a decade of writing articles on mental health and mental health treatment. In addition, Angus brings twenty years of experience as a yoga teacher and experiential educator to his work for Crownview. He’s an expert at synthesizing complex concepts into accessible content that helps patients, providers, and families understand the nuances of mental health treatment, with the ultimate goal of improving outcomes and quality of life for all stakeholders.